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    Happy Birthday to Me!

    December 12, 2015

    I am 37 years and a week and a day old at this moment. With that being said, I have committed to from now into the new year to consistently read and blog. I have been stockpiling books like a squirrel and finally am smart enough to know I am able to take the time to recharge.

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    Phenomenal Woman – Ruthie Foster (Words by Dr. Maya Angelou)

    April 22, 2014

    The Power of Who: You Already Know Everyone You Need to Know (Book Review)

    February 2, 2013
    Hearty Sweet Potato Meatloaf

    Hearty Sweet Potato Meatloaf (Main Dish Recipe)

    August 15, 2013
  • Latest News

    Jill Scott is back with her latest release “WOMAN”.

    July 24, 2015

    I have always considered Miss. Jill Scott as my big sister-friend in my head! I know many of you that grew to love her like myself over the last 15 years, probably have too.  She has blessed us with her many talents: poet, singer, songwriter, actor and sisterly wisdom.  Today (7/24/15) she released her 5th studio album entitled “WOMAN”.  The first single “You Don’t Know”was released back in March: Below you can find an additional clip from an interview she did earlier this week on ABC’s “The View”.  You can purchase “WOMAN” now everywhere, but this link takes you to the product page on Amazon.com: http://amzn.to/1CVPUXJ

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    Pharrell Williams – Happy (London Gospel Remix – Adam & Kid)

    April 18, 2014
    Slow Cooked Italian Jerk Chicken

    Slow Cooked Italian Jerk Chicken (Main Dish Recipe)

    August 8, 2013

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve

    September 22, 2009
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    Just a few of the things I am thankful for

    December 24, 2014

    It’s Christmas Holidays Season!  You are probably as excited as I am for the opportunity to spend time with family and friends and chow down on some good food and fixings. As I sit here in front of my computer, I can honestly say there are a number things that I can give thanks for. A lot has happened in my life since the last time I posted an article.  After almost a year and a half after relocating, I was given the opportunity to work full-time outside of the home this summer not once, twice but three times!  Don’t get me wrong, I was grateful for the transition time. …

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    5 Funny Things That Happened During & After Our Wedding Ceremony

    June 6, 2014

    His Day is Done – A Tribute Poem for Nelson Mandela by Dr. Maya Angelou

    December 8, 2013
  • Latest News,  Relationships

    1 of the three men I was honored to call my Godfather

    December 23, 2014

    Not every child is blessed with Godparents! People chosen to watch over their spiritual development; charged to step in if their parents ever cannot. In my case I was blessed with 4 Godparents 3 of which were my Godfathers.  Each of my Godfathers has gone to be with the Lord.  The most recent one to pass was late last week.  My Godfather James was a US Army veteran, entrepreneur, and a very proud man that loved his family.  He was also my mother’s first husband, her first love and last.  My father was her second. They were both born on the same day, just a year apart.  As a young…

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    Book Release: Conquering Christian: Christian Conquers Superpower by Valerie Lenon-Reed

    August 12, 2013
    Blackberry and Raspberry Bread

    Blackberry and Raspberry Bread (Dessert Recipe)

    October 10, 2013
    Turkey Kale with a Splash of Raspberry

    Turkey Kale with a Splash of Raspberry (Vegetable Side Dish Recipe)

    August 7, 2013
  • Latest News,  Prayer

    My Morning Ritual Begins with Thoughts of Gratitude!

    August 21, 2014

    When the Hubby Coach’s alarm goes off the first thing, I think to myself is… How grateful I am to God for another day!  Mind you, I have most likely already been up for an hour. My internal clock seems to have learned to wake me instinctively an hour before my husband; most mornings I do not set my own alarm because of this. I use that hour before he and I interact to prepare myself mentally and spiritually for the day ahead. I have learned and understand the importance of the words I speak, so I have gotten into the habit of not actually saying anything out loud when…

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    Phenomenal Woman – Ruthie Foster (Words by Dr. Maya Angelou)

    April 22, 2014

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eight

    August 18, 2009

    Why I have a Personal Attitude Adjustment Plan

    July 11, 2013
  • My God is Faithful! - Prayer of Thanksgiving
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    My God is Faithful! – Prayer of Thanksgiving

    July 26, 2014

    My God… Is a faithful God! I am thanking Him in advance for opening doors no man can shut. For giving me the words to speak and the wisdom to know when to just listen. An abundance of favor is mine. I shout grace, grace in Jesus’ name!

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    Black Butterfly – Spread Your Wings and Fly!

    April 23, 2014

    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013

    Has He Already Given You The Answer?

    January 16, 2014
  • Latest News,  Relationships

    Be a better communicator!

    July 26, 2014

    The word I got in my spirit this morning was to be a better communicator. My big sister-cousin pointed out something to me the other week that I thought was hilarious because it is so true. She told me that she found it odd that I was such a social butterfly, but am private in the areas where I need others the most. Her assessment I know had a lot of validity to it because; well she has known me my entire life for one. Two she is professionally trained to diagnose my craziness, she is a Ph.D. candidate in Clinical Psychology. For whatever reason, now at age 35, I am…

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    And so a new journey has begun

    December 19, 2015

    Mixed Fruit, Granola and Vanilla Almond Milk Smoothie Recipe

    June 15, 2013

    Reconnecting with the Family for the Holidays and Beyond

    December 28, 2013
  • Latest News

    Real Talk, Remain Teachable.

    July 24, 2014

    The other day I was blessed with some really good advice from a seasoned professional in the industry I have always been curious about, Human Resources. I am so grateful I found the courage to just ask. By doing so, I may have just identified a new mentor.

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    Introducing the MommyWriter | Dominique Rambert

    September 9, 2009

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Nine

    August 25, 2009
    Whole Wheat Banana Peanut Butter Bread

    Whole Wheat Peanut Butter Banana Bread (Dessert Recipe)

    September 12, 2010
  • Bible Study,  Latest News,  Relationships

    His Grace is MORE Than Sufficient… Enough for Me

    July 2, 2014

    The other day I had many opportunities where I wanted and could have been selfish with my time. It seemed that everyone one of my clients had an urgent issue on what was supposed to be my day off. I had to check my attitude a few times and put my grown self on a timeout, literally and figuratively. Yes, I am woman enough to say… I walked into my bedroom, shut the door and then the walk-in closet and screamed “Help me Jesus!” Don’t get me wrong, I love assisting others. It’s one of the areas I have been graced in. However, I am learning how to find balance in…

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    My 2013 Year-end Book Reading Schedule

    December 10, 2013

    I Just Want To Go Home!

    February 24, 2014

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Ten

    September 1, 2009
  • Bible Study,  Relationships,  Statements

    Trust in His Timing

    June 20, 2014

    We don’t attempt to speed up the process of baking a cake because we know if we do it may end up flat. Why then do we try to rush God in regards to his timing and seeing manifestations of the blessing in our lives? Everything happens in God’s perfect timing. So, rest assured He has you covered. Just stay in faith! #LOVEFORWARD

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    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day One

    July 30, 2009
    ..."but with God." Declaring it OUT LOUD cancels out EVERYTHING the enemy may be trying to whisper in your ear. - Lela Jefferson Fagan

    Say it. Believe it. Receive it. Achieve it. @LelaJefferson

    May 29, 2013

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve

    September 22, 2009
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