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    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013 /

      “Right Heart. Right Attitude.”; by Joyce Meyer is the book I am currently reading or should I say is reading me.  I was introduced to the book after watching a series of episodes on the subject of “Attitudes” on Joyce Meyer’s “Enjoying Everyday Life” broadcast.  Auntie Joyce’s (what I affectionately call her) program is one of the word-based ones I record on my DVR.  I watch it and others during my devotional time. When I first watched the episodes, it was shortly after moving to Texas to live with my husband, Oji.  We had lived nearly 9 months separately after getting married!  We were/are in that delicate yet beautiful…

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    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Two

    July 30, 2009

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    August 18, 2009

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    April 26, 2014
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    The countdown has begun…

    November 20, 2011 /

    Habakkuk 2:3 AMP – For the vision is yet for an appointed time and it hastens to the end [fulfillment]; it will not deceive or disappoint. Though it tarry, wait [earnestly] for it, because it will surely come; it will not be behindhand on its appointed day. Today is Sunday, November 20, 2011… It’s officially two weeks before my 33rd birthday.  I am using this time to assess and get myself organized.  It is also less than two months before the New Year and traditionally this is the time I evaluate my “I WILL” statements in prep of creating a new list for the upcoming year.  I believe this year I…

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    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013

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    January 17, 2013

    I Must Respectfully Disagree

    April 10, 2014
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    What to Do When Quitting is Not an Option? – Part 1

    May 8, 2011 /

    In 2006 there were a few factors that if I did not have a relationship (meaning a prayer life) with God I may have wanted to check out… nothing extreme like taking my own life. However if I could I would have just become invisible and just disappeared from the craziness of what was becoming my everyday routine. I had bouts with depression, my behavior and attitude changed, and not for the better. I was under a lot of pressure and more responsibilities than I would have cared to have. Yet quitting was not an option for me… See, 2006 was the year my mother went home to be with…

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    This may seem random… You were on my heart.

    June 5, 2014

    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

    October 29, 2013

    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Four

    August 5, 2009
  • Bible Study,  Latest News,  Statements,  Thoughts

    It’s Okay, God Already Knows

    March 27, 2011 /

    So… you missed the mark. You sinned. You were disobedient to God’s will / His word. Now what? FYI Its okay, God already knows what you did. Will there be consequences? Sure there will be. It’s okay to go to him and talk about it and get the instruction on how to get back on track. God is God, he created you and he has given you a purpose to fulfill. But first you need to get over yourself… (YOU-R-SELF)…  relax he is waiting for you; he has made an opening just for you in his busy schedule. Psalm 32 (The Message) A David Psalm 1 Count yourself lucky, how happy you…

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    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eight

    August 18, 2009

    How Devoted to Your Devotionals are You?

    July 12, 2013

    Spending Time In Your Presence

    April 25, 2014
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    Ok I will Do It, Lord

    August 8, 2010 /

    August 8th, 2010 – Yesterday, in preparing to go to my church’s general service, I decided to have as my traveling music Byron Cage’s “Faithful to Believe” album. When I arrived on location the song that was pumping through my ear phones was “I Can’t Hold it”; a song that gets me every time in the mood to praise.  After attending a meeting I proceeded to go downstairs to visit with one of my friends in another volunteer department (I serve in the Music Ministry.)  I opted for the elevator versus the stairs.  Two of my friends one an armor bearer for my pastors and another a pastor’s aide waited with…

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    It’s Your Time by Joel Osteen (In Progress Book Review)

    August 9, 2013

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eight

    August 18, 2009

    Why I have a Personal Attitude Adjustment Plan

    July 11, 2013
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    A Testimony In flight

    July 6, 2010 /

    Friday July 2nd, 2010 – I woke up this morning with a new spring in my step.  Today, I am Houston, TX bound for the first time.  I am spending July 4th weekend with my sweetie and his family.  I packed the night before while being coached (over the phone) by a professional, my sweetie coaches, football.  As he stated, his major boyfriend duty was to make sure I went to bed with enough time to not be cranky in the morning.  Mission accomplished. Leaving for work, I said my goodbyes to my pets.  My plan was to head for the airport after work.  Auston my dog I could tell…

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    July 12, 2013
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    May 10, 2014

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    August 11, 2009
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    God has a mighty BIG sense of humor

    March 24, 2010 /

    “Only I can tell you the future before it even happens. Everything I plan will come to pass, for I do whatever I wish.” Isaiah 46:10 NLT God has a mighty BIG sense of humor. This has been a, connect the dots week for me. I have been taking a trip down memory lane as I reconnect with my old friends, family and colleagues more and more.  They give me the opportunity to take a look at my life in hindsight…. It amazes me that I can say I have NO regrets. If I had the power to magically undo ANYTHING I have done thus far, I wouldn’t. I’ve spent too…

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    Black Butterfly – Spread Your Wings and Fly!

    April 23, 2014

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve

    September 22, 2009

    Pharrell Williams – Happy (London Gospel Remix – Adam & Kid)

    April 18, 2014
  • Bible Study,  Latest News

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eleven

    September 17, 2009 /

    I read having a Mary Heart in a Martha World – Finding Intimacy with God in the Busyness of Life by Joanna Weaver over the summer.  A book I now highly recommend for all women, young and old to read.  I have been actually sharing my findings as I journey through the accompanying Bible Study Mrs. Weaver placed at the end of the book on my blogs.  Here is the latest question I studied out and gave commentary on. Questions for Going Deeper – Day Eleven 5) In Mark 4:34-41 the disciples echoed Martha’s question:  “Don’t you care?”  What does this portion of Scripture teach us about the difficult times in…

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    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve

    September 22, 2009
    PRAY First. Proceed with God.

    STOP! PRAY First. Proceed With God. @LelaJefferson

    June 3, 2013

    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Six

    August 11, 2009
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    Introducing the MommyWriter | Dominique Rambert

    September 9, 2009 /

    Folks, I have a new set of blogs for you to check out, written by the MommyWriter ;-). A young military wife that is living GREEN; raising her first child, loving her husband and blogging about it. Check her out today!  Dominique is a wife and mother to a very active 12 month old in NYC.  In addition to her full-time job she is also a freelance writer, blogger, and non-profit organizer.  Her writing topics run the gamut from book reviews, parenting, education, Christianity, freelancing/publishing, and a lot in between. Dominique in her own words… While I write mostly about parenting and education issues, I also write about Christianity, writing/freelancing,…

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    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013

    My 2013 Year-end Book Reading Schedule

    December 10, 2013

    The Power of Who: You Already Know Everyone You Need to Know (Book Review)

    February 2, 2013
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    Book Shopping with the Voice

    September 8, 2009 /

    There is something about obeying that small voice of reason otherwise known as the Holy Spirit… This past Saturday after attending church, I was led to go book shopping at Borders.  I had been debating for some time with myself about buying a Message Bible.  See for the past year when I did my home bible study, I would use the website Bible Gateway to look up the Message Bible translation of a verse for a deeper understanding.  My main reference translations have been the King James and Amplified up until then.   I was first introduced to the Message Bible by a minister from my church’s parent ministry during a…

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