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    58! What!?!

    December 20, 2016 /

    The other day I plugged my numbers into a health app the estimated that because of my habits, health wise instead my current age of 38 I am behaving like someone that is 20 years older. I say no way, to that mess! My Uncle Ray I love him, I truly do. He is nearly 80 years old but looks like he is no older than maybe 60. He told me from as far back as I can remember to take care of my health; to watch what I ate and to exercise. I didn’t really take his advice during the last decade. I enjoyed myself and now have a work…

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    ..."but with God." Declaring it OUT LOUD cancels out EVERYTHING the enemy may be trying to whisper in your ear. - Lela Jefferson Fagan

    Say it. Believe it. Receive it. Achieve it. @LelaJefferson

    May 29, 2013
    My God is Faithful! - Prayer of Thanksgiving

    My God is Faithful! – Prayer of Thanksgiving

    July 26, 2014

    Kids, Your Parents Really DO Understand

    December 20, 2013
  • Bible Study,  Inspiration,  Latest News,  Prayer

    Making that Necessary 180 Degree Turn

    April 26, 2014 /

    Lord, today I confess that I have made a 180 degree turn and am resting peacefully in your presence. My re-born sealed spirit is already yielded and bonded to you. I now submit my mind/soul and body to be led. Have your will with me Lord. I thank you for your grace and new mercies this morning. I thank you for your unmerited favor and unconditional agape love. I know I am your beloved because of this knowledge; I walk boldly into your courts with praise. I stand in awe and utter reverence because you loved me so much that you gave me a savior, a redeemer and a big…

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    Pharrell Williams – Happy (London Gospel Remix – Adam & Kid)

    April 18, 2014

    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

    October 29, 2013

    How Devoted to Your Devotionals are You?

    July 12, 2013
  • Bible Study,  Inspiration,  Latest News

    Don’t Discount Your Past

    February 4, 2014 /

    When I look back at my life so far, what I have gone through, what I have done and where I have been I just have to say thank you God!

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    It’s Your Time by Joel Osteen (In Progress Book Review)

    August 9, 2013

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve

    September 22, 2009

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Nine

    August 25, 2009
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    The Positive Effects of Change, I have a Different Attitude!

    November 4, 2013 /

    I think one of the most powerful things that have had to happen due to my relocation, is the need for me to start over in a number of areas of my life. I actually have no other choice but to if I am to succeed moving forward in any assignment God places in my responsibility to steward. The Lord has given me fresh eyes, and revelation. I am being stretched and have moved away from my comfort zone, New York, home. During this season, God has humbled me on so many levels, and I am still being humbled and pruned. I love this season I am in. Though there…

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    My First How-To Book

    January 17, 2013

    Pharrell Williams – Happy (London Gospel Remix – Adam & Kid)

    April 18, 2014

    Mixed Fruit, Granola and Vanilla Almond Milk Smoothie Recipe

    June 15, 2013
  • Events,  Inspiration,  Latest News

    It’s Me Oh Lord, Standing in Need of Prayer

    November 1, 2013 /

    “Don’t focus on your weaknesses; focus on your God.” – Pastor Joel Osteen Yesterday, I received a report about my health that essentially shook my world.  The news even came with pictures!  I am still trying to wrap my head around it. In a sense, I honestly can’t because if I do I will open a door for fear to enter in rather than let my faith to grow from within. I think I can actually list what I am experiencing in the natural as the physical manifestation of things I know that have been going on in the spirit.  There are dreams and things that I was supposed to…

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    5 Funny Things That Happened During & After Our Wedding Ceremony

    June 6, 2014

    His Day is Done – A Tribute Poem for Nelson Mandela by Dr. Maya Angelou

    December 8, 2013
  • Features,  Latest News

    Connecting the dots… I already know you know how to drive.

    October 9, 2013 /

    Friday, August 30, 2013 Connecting the dots… I already know you know how to drive.  Today, I will be going for my second attempt at passing my road test in Texas.  I am confident I will pass it this time.  Amazingly, I have never felt so much at peace about a road test then I do today.  The Coach is a bit concerned because he is not sure if he will be able to leave the job early enough to get me to the testing site for my appointment.  I am confident he will, so I am not sweating it.  Too many things have been lining themselves up for me not to…

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    His Day is Done – A Tribute Poem for Nelson Mandela by Dr. Maya Angelou

    December 8, 2013

    Introducing the MommyWriter | Dominique Rambert

    September 9, 2009

    One Bookworm’s Personal Book Reading Challenge for 2014

    January 13, 2014
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    Why I really don’t think it’s OK to use the “N” or “B” words.

    October 8, 2013 /

    September 28, 2013 (Facebook Status Update) – I just took a look at my FB feed and was a bit disgusted. No matter how you say it or spell it the “N” word means a low life human being. And the “B” word means a female dog; which is an animal that may at times eat its own young and feces, and offer its hind-parts to accept any male. If you, allow yourself to be called or call someone who you care about either … You are calling them out of their name. Don’t allow yourself to be defined LESS than God’s best. I just had to say something. Getting…

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    I Must Respectfully Disagree

    April 10, 2014

    Phenomenal Woman – Ruthie Foster (Words by Dr. Maya Angelou)

    April 22, 2014

    Spending Time In Your Presence

    April 25, 2014
  • Features,  Latest News,  Relationships

    The 24 Hour Rule: Win or Lose

    October 7, 2013 /

    This past Friday October 4th, the HS Football team that my husband assistant coaches here in Houston, TX lost its first game of the regular season.  Before this game we were 3-0 (we were actually 4-0; one game was cancelled by our opponent due to inclement weather and other things.) This loss stung just a bit more because the game was played against our closest district rivals.  We had never lost a game at home against them, it was homecoming for us, and the game was televised locally. Our team was recently featured in a local HS athletes’ magazine as the cover story.  Last year we had an undefeated regular season;…

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    Black Girls…Let’s Talk About Your Health, Ladies!

    October 31, 2013
    PRAY First. Proceed with God.

    Employing Angelic Protection

    August 8, 2012

    5 Funny Things That Happened During & After Our Wedding Ceremony

    June 6, 2014
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    Taking the Next Step to Becoming Healthier

    September 26, 2013 /

    Today I did something significant for myself.  I got up this morning with taking care of me in mind; mind, spirit, body and soul.  After eating breakfast, and spending some devotional time with the Lord, I went on my one hour Fitness Walk around our community.  Generally I listen to “Praise and Worship” music or a personal development audio book.   Today I decided to listen to “Lean In” by Sheryl Sandberg.  It was recommended to me by one of my mentors. The book focuses on teaching women how to help one another and empowers them by giving advice on how they can pursue their dreams and ambitions.  Sheryl Sandberg was…

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    His Day is Done – A Tribute Poem for Nelson Mandela by Dr. Maya Angelou

    December 8, 2013

    5 Funny Things That Happened During & After Our Wedding Ceremony

    June 6, 2014
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    Episode 16: By Myself… I Could Not Even Get Outside of the Parking Lot! (VIDEO)

    September 11, 2013 /

    Lela Jefferson Fagan the host of the “Memoirs of a Black Girl Podcast Series” shares her testimony of passing her road test and acquiring her first car!  

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    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Six

    August 11, 2009

    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Two

    July 30, 2009

    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

    October 29, 2013
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