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    Who am I, she asked? I answered my name was Hannah. Pt. 2

    December 23, 2016 /

    I hear the driver’s side door slam. Somehow every sound seems as if it has been amplified and colors around me are in high-definition since I woke up this morning. Today I was released from the hospital and am all loaded up in my husband Oji’s car. As soon as Ms. Dot had wheeled me outside to meet him, he grabbed my suitcase and the tote I carried on my lap. I get up slowly to thank and hug her for motherly watching over me the last couple of days. She finally releases me to my husband’s care, giving him a few last-minute instructions, including in which the advice that…

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    VIDEO PLUG: His Princess Bride – Love Letters from Your Prince (Book)

    August 16, 2011

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    April 24, 2014

    Four Ladies I am Currently Crushing On

    May 9, 2014
  • Book Reviews,  Latest News

    Back Porch Reading

    April 12, 2014 /

    This week I started something new. After realizing I had fallen a bit behind on my book reading schedule; I decided to designate the 1-2 hours before sundown to read outside on our back porch. I have found it is a fantastic way to end the day. Not only is it relaxing, but also it stimulates the creative sectors of my brain. Last night I finished reading the book “Accidental Pharisees: Avoiding Pride, Exclusivity, and the Other Dangers of Overzealous Faith” by Larry Osbourne and began digging deeper into “Overcoming Fear: Eliminating the Bondage of Fear” by my pastor, Dr. Creflo A. Dollar, Jr.  The latter book, I picked up last…

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    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Nine

    August 25, 2009

    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013

    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day One

    July 30, 2009
  • Inspiration,  Latest News

    Call a thing…a thing. – Iyanla Vanzant

    March 26, 2014 /

    “Call a thing…a thing.” – Iyanla Vanzant I know from my own personal experience…. When I don’t call what I am feeling by its actual name, I tend to give it more power. Simply, because I begin to meditate on it. As I have been taught by my Pastors, whatever you meditate on (positive or negative) has the potential to manifest itself in your life. Once something is identified, however you now have a base from which to start the journey towards obtaining wisdom to either gain understanding to resolve it or amplify it. No, longer will I allow fear to paralyze me from experiencing the freedom, that Jesus sacrifice…

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    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013

    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

    October 29, 2013

    This may seem random… You were on my heart.

    June 5, 2014
  • Features,  Latest News

    Connecting the dots… I already know you know how to drive.

    October 9, 2013 /

    Friday, August 30, 2013 Connecting the dots… I already know you know how to drive.  Today, I will be going for my second attempt at passing my road test in Texas.  I am confident I will pass it this time.  Amazingly, I have never felt so much at peace about a road test then I do today.  The Coach is a bit concerned because he is not sure if he will be able to leave the job early enough to get me to the testing site for my appointment.  I am confident he will, so I am not sweating it.  Too many things have been lining themselves up for me not to…

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    PRAY First. Proceed with God.

    Employing Angelic Protection

    August 8, 2012

    One Bookworm’s Personal Book Reading Challenge for 2014

    January 13, 2014

    Black Girls…Let’s Talk About Your Health, Ladies!

    October 31, 2013
  • Bible Study,  Features,  Latest News,  Relationships

    How many times have you asked GOD to USE you in prayer?

    April 17, 2013 /

    Question…”How many times have you asked GOD to USE you in prayer? Yet, when HE actually calls you into service you run from HIS heavenly urging like a draft dodger… CHECK your HEART is it MOTIVES DRIVEN or SPIRIT LED?” Definition: USE (Verb) – Take, hold, or deploy (something) as a means of accomplishing a purpose or achieving a result; employ. The other day the above inquiry was one of my Facebook statuses. It was as much a question to me as it was to my network.  After recently relocating to Houston, I was confronted with having to ask myself this exact question on a number of topics:  From experiencing…

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    Why I have a Personal Attitude Adjustment Plan

    July 11, 2013

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Thirteen

    October 7, 2009
    ..."but with God." Declaring it OUT LOUD cancels out EVERYTHING the enemy may be trying to whisper in your ear. - Lela Jefferson Fagan

    Say it. Believe it. Receive it. Achieve it. @LelaJefferson

    May 29, 2013
  • Bible Study,  Features,  Latest News

    Spiritual Vomit…Ewww… Clean up needed in aisle you!

    April 3, 2011 /

    Psalm 45: 1 (Amplified) MY HEART overflows with a [a]goodly theme; I address my psalm to a King. My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer. “Spiritual Vomit”!?!? What the heck is that you may be asking…?  Does it sound gross to you? It should. The repercussions that come from not purging your soul, can cause you to have unexpected verbal accidents. As I have been taught, man is a tri-part being he is a spirit that possesses a soul/heart (where his thinker, feeler, and chooser reside) and he has and lives in body.  When we die in the physical our spirit man is separated from our flesh (our earth…

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    How Devoted to Your Devotionals are You?

    July 12, 2013

    “Right Heart. Right Attitude.” By Joyce Meyer is jacking me UP (in a good way)!

    May 29, 2013

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eight

    August 18, 2009
  • Bible Study,  Latest News,  Statements,  Thoughts

    It’s Okay, God Already Knows

    March 27, 2011 /

    So… you missed the mark. You sinned. You were disobedient to God’s will / His word. Now what? FYI Its okay, God already knows what you did. Will there be consequences? Sure there will be. It’s okay to go to him and talk about it and get the instruction on how to get back on track. God is God, he created you and he has given you a purpose to fulfill. But first you need to get over yourself… (YOU-R-SELF)…  relax he is waiting for you; he has made an opening just for you in his busy schedule. Psalm 32 (The Message) A David Psalm 1 Count yourself lucky, how happy you…

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    How Devoted to Your Devotionals are You?

    July 12, 2013

    Pharrell Williams – Happy (London Gospel Remix – Adam & Kid)

    April 18, 2014

    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

    October 29, 2013
  • Bible Study

    Chapter Three | The Diagnosis | Day Fifteen

    February 10, 2010 /

    I read having a Mary Heart in a Martha World – Finding Intimacy with God in the Busyness of Life by Joanna Weaver over the summer.  A book I now highly recommend for all women, young and old to read.  I have been actually sharing my findings as I journey through the accompanying Bible Study Mrs. Weaver placed at the end of the book on my blogs.  Here is the latest question I studied out and gave commentary on. Questions for Discussion or Reflection – Day Fifteen 2) According to Dr. Edward Hallowell, over half of us are chronic worriers.  Which of the ten signs of a big worrier on…

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    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Thirteen

    October 7, 2009

    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

    October 29, 2013

    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Three

    August 3, 2009
  • Bible Study,  Latest News

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    September 4, 2009 /

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    PRAY First. Proceed with God.

    STOP! PRAY First. Proceed With God. @LelaJefferson

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    Out of the Mouths of Baby Black Girls

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    My 2013 Year-end Book Reading Schedule

    December 10, 2013
  • Bible Study,  Book Reviews,  Latest News

    Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Ten

    September 1, 2009 /

    I recently finished reading having a Mary Heart in a Martha World – Finding Intimacy with God in the Busyness of Life by Joanna Weaver.  A book I now highly recommend for all women, young and old to read.  For the next 12 weeks, I plan to share my findings as I journey through the accompanying Bible Study Mrs. Weaver placed at the end of the book. Questions for Going Deeper – Day Ten 1) In this passage how did God minister to Elijah in the midst of his discouragement (1 Kings 19: 1-8)?  How has God ministered to you when you felt alone and were hurting? In this passage of scripture Elijah…

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    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Five

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    Chapter One | A Tale of Two Sisters | Day Four

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