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65 Degrees Today, 20 in Two Days: A Neurodivergent Mama’s Texas Prep
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65 Degrees Today, 20 in Two Days: A Neurodivergent Mama’s Texas Prep

Posted by Lela Fagan January 23, 2026
Texas went from 65 degrees to 20 in just two days—and suddenly winter prep wasn’t just about blankets. It was about safe foods, peace of mind, and the quiet victories of neurodivergent motherhood.
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She Spelled It for Me: A Black Mama’s Moment of Neurodivergent Brilliance
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She Spelled It for Me: A Black Mama’s Moment of Neurodivergent Brilliance

Posted by Lela Fagan January 11, 2026
Sometimes miracles don’t roar — they whisper. When my six-year-old autistic daughter spelled “grapes” to make sure she was heard, I witnessed advocacy, literacy, and brilliance all wrapped in a single moment.
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When I Stopped Trying to Fix My Daughter, She Found Her Voice
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When I Stopped Trying to Fix My Daughter, She Found Her Voice

Posted by Lela Fagan December 29, 2025
There’s a little secret I want to share about how my daughter, Ella Grace, began…
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Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family
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Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family

Posted by Lela Fagan September 4, 2025
Eight years ago, my vision boards were full of prayers for family + faith. This month, we celebrate the anniversary of meeting the boys — and watch Ella Grace sing whole songs in the background. God’s timing? Right. On. Time.
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Neurodivergence and the X-Factor
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Neurodivergence and the X-Factor

Posted by Lela Fagan August 9, 2025
I’ve realized something: raising neurodivergent children is like raising the X-Men. Their strengths are powerful, their challenges are real, and the world often misunderstands them. But fear isn’t the answer—understanding is. 🦸🏾‍♀️ #Parenting #Neurodiversity
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Inclusion in Action: An Autism Mama’s Unexpected Blessing
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Inclusion in Action: An Autism Mama’s Unexpected Blessing

Posted by Lela Fagan July 31, 2025
A Grace-Filled First How one summer camp field trip reminded me that with the right…
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You

Posted by Lela Fagan June 21, 2025
Being the “cool Auntie” means knowing when to listen and when to drop a gem. I wrote this a decade ago—before motherhood—and now it hits even deeper.
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story

Posted by Lela Fagan June 4, 2025
Parenting neurodivergent children requires deep listening, daily grace, and limitless love. In my latest blog post, I reflect on raising my three beautifully unique kids—and how God meets me in the moments in between.
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Recent Posts

  • Same Woman, Different Crown (Part I): Why I Call My Wigs “Hats”
  • 65 Degrees Today, 20 in Two Days: A Neurodivergent Mama’s Texas Prep
  • How I Taught Myself to Cook: A Collard Greens Kitchen Memoir
  • She Spelled It for Me: A Black Mama’s Moment of Neurodivergent Brilliance
  • When “No” Becomes Necessary: Embracing Change, Growth, and New Seasons as a Family

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