Memoirs of a Black Girl

Welcome to the world of Lela Jefferson Fagan—where words have power, stories spark change, and no topic is off-limits. If you’re looking for cookie-cutter content, you’re in the wrong place. But if you’re up for some real talk, deep dives, and the occasional side-eye at societal norms, pull up a chair.

Lela is the creative mind behind Memoirs of a Black Girl and the author of Poetry of a Black Girl: The Darkness and the Light. She writes with heart, humor, and a touch of rebellion, tackling life, identity, and everything. Her blog isn’t just a collection of musings—it’s a space for self-discovery, empowerment, and sometimes, a much-needed reality check.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, Lela now calls Houston home, where she juggles life with her husband, Oji (a football coach and athletics administrator), and their three energetic kids. When she’s not writing, you can find her lost in a book, sharing her thoughts on social media, or passionately debating which borough has the best food (spoiler: it’s Brooklyn).

Follow her on X: @LelaJFagan. But fair warning—she keeps it honest.