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Hello World, Again!? Over 20 years of content deleted.
Hey everyone! So, I have a little confession to make... I deleted a huge chunk…
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How Not to Burn Out While Serving: A Prayer for Balance, Compassion, and Overflow
Sometimes serving others leaves us feeling burnt out and bitter instead of joyful and fulfilled. It doesn’t have to be that way. 💛
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Ashanti Crowns and Soulful Goodbyes: The End of My African Homecoming
From mosquito-bitten nights in a $2.50 hotel to dancing for the last time on African soil, my final days in Ghana were unforgettable. I became Adawa, saw the Ashanti King, and nearly caused a market riot over a lost camera. Oh—and I watched my dad get chased for wearing a sombrero and biker shorts in Senegal.
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From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen
We danced in a Fulani village. Rode dune buggies to the Atlantic. Prayed at the ocean’s edge. I missed my mama. We got soaked in rain, witnessed beauty, and learned painful truths.
And then we crossed into Ghana…
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From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen
In the summer of 1994, I boarded a plane for the very first time—with a passport, a notebook, and a dream. At sixteen, I left Brooklyn and journeyed with my dad, aunt, and cousin to Senegal and Ghana for what became a soul-shifting trip to the Motherland.
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My Funko Pop Rotation: How a Black Girl’s Office Shelf Tells a Story
Discover how I rotate my Funko Pop collection—from Wakanda to classic TV—and why it’s more than a shelf; it’s a story of joy, culture, and legacy.
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Practical Holiness: Living From the Inside Out
While flipping through one of my old Bible study notebooks from over thirteen years ago,…
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When Fear Knocks, Let Faith Answer
🕊️ When fear comes knocking, don’t leave it on read—let faith answer the door with the Word as backup.
This summer, I’m decluttering more than closets. I’m clearing out the lies fear told me and making room for bold, faith-filled action.
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You
Being the “cool Auntie” means knowing when to listen and when to drop a gem. I wrote this a decade ago—before motherhood—and now it hits even deeper.
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Dear Hearts: A Healing Letter to All My Nieces and Nephews
Grief doesn’t knock before it shows up. But neither does healing. Read this open letter from Auntie Lela to all her nieces and nephews about life, loss, and choosing to live again.
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A Renaissance Man in Reeboks: Remembering My Father’s Quiet Genius
Some men leave behind estates.Others leave behind empires.My father? He left behind legacy. He was…
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Happy Father’s Day to Our Forever Head Coach — Oji Fagan
From the sidelines of the field to the heart of our home, you lead with…
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story
Parenting neurodivergent children requires deep listening, daily grace, and limitless love. In my latest blog post, I reflect on raising my three beautifully unique kids—and how God meets me in the moments in between.
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From Throwback Thursday to Flashback Friday to Saturday and Beyond: Let the Purging Begin!
Every summer, my spirit starts whispering “declutter, sis.” And this year? I’m listening. I’m deep diving into papers, closets, garages, and forgotten storage units—not just to clean, but to make room for what’s next.
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The Weight of a Name: A Lesson for My Son
🧠💛 Today, I reminded my son Tyson that he carries three names—child of God, his own, and his family’s. When our babies understand who they are, they grow into who they’re meant to be.
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“No” Is a Complete Sentence: Faith, Boundaries & Freedom
There’s something sacred about a woman who can say “No.” without flinching, without apologizing.
Jesus didn’t say “Yes” to every request—and neither should you. Boundaries are biblical. Rest is righteous. Peace is holy.
Let’s honor the God in us by protecting our capacity. 🙏🏾
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The Blessing of Elder Women: How Their Wisdom Shaped My Life
✨ Elder women have been my Naomis—guiding, nurturing, and loving me since my mother's passing. Discover how their wisdom transformed my life. Read more at memoirsofablackgirl.com. 🌿 #FaithJourney #MemoirsOfABlackGirl @LelaJFagan
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Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something
There’s something deeply sobering about the way people react when you step into your purpose—especially when those people are the ones who know you best.
Mark 6:1-29 NLT is a chapter that doesn’t just speak—it shouts. It tells two stories that seem separate but are inextricably linked by a common theme: the cost of calling.
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He Could Never Be Satisfied: What King Solomon and Hamilton Teach Us About Legacy, Ego, and Obedience
“Legacy isn’t built on brilliance alone—it’s shaped by obedience.”
What does the wisest king in the Bible have in common with Broadway’s most lyrical legend?
A cautionary tale of ambition, approval, and the downfall of men who flew too close to the sun.
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What a Baby Sparrow Taught Me About Faith in Action
Originally penned 11 years ago, this reflection remains close to my heart. Sometimes the smallest moments—like a fallen sparrow—carry the biggest lessons. I’ve revisited and refreshed this piece for Memoirs of a Black Girl, but its core message of faith in action stands timeless.
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Boxes, Books, and Breakthroughs: How One Apartment Shaped My Journey
Editor’s Note:
Originally written over a decade ago, this reflection captures a pivotal moment in my journey—closing one chapter and stepping boldly into the next. As you read, I invite you to walk with me through the halls of memory, faith, and healing.
— Lela J. Fagan