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Too Much and Not Enough: A Saturday Reflection
On unfinished checklists, overwhelmed hearts, intentional communication, and learning that being present matters more than…
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We Are Not AI: The Cost of Transactional Communication in a Convenience Culture
In a world of instant messages and constant notifications, we’ve started communicating with people the way we interact with machines—quick, transactional, and without pause. But relationships were never meant to function on autopilot. This reflection explores the cost of convenience culture and the power of intentional communication.
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From Nonverbal to Boss Baby: Celebrating Ella Grace’s Voice
A mother reflects on her daughter Ella Grace’s powerful speech development—from once minimally verbal to confidently expressing her needs with faith, joy, and personality.
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Becoming the Elder: A Reflection on Legacy, Loss, and Self-Care
This past week, I was reminded in a painful yet profound way: I am an elder now.
I’ve carried this mantle since birth, but it feels different when loss reminds you of how precious and short time can be. My great-grand niece’s passing brought back memories of the elders I lost too soon, and it stirred in me a commitment to care for myself so I can be present for my children and their children.
Legacy isn’t only about memory. It’s about presence.
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Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family
Eight years ago, my vision boards were full of prayers for family + faith.
This month, we celebrate the anniversary of meeting the boys — and watch Ella Grace sing whole songs in the background.
God’s timing? Right. On. Time.
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Don’t Compromise the Standard: Why You Need Standards in Life and Leadership
Originally inspired by leadership meeting notes, 2014 | Revised for today Whether in business, ministry,…
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You
Being the “cool Auntie” means knowing when to listen and when to drop a gem. I wrote this a decade ago—before motherhood—and now it hits even deeper.
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Dear Hearts: A Healing Letter to All My Nieces and Nephews
Grief doesn’t knock before it shows up. But neither does healing. Read this open letter from Auntie Lela to all her nieces and nephews about life, loss, and choosing to live again.
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story
Parenting neurodivergent children requires deep listening, daily grace, and limitless love. In my latest blog post, I reflect on raising my three beautifully unique kids—and how God meets me in the moments in between.
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The Weight of a Name: A Lesson for My Son
🧠💛 Today, I reminded my son Tyson that he carries three names—child of God, his own, and his family’s. When our babies understand who they are, they grow into who they’re meant to be.
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“No” Is a Complete Sentence: Faith, Boundaries & Freedom
There’s something sacred about a woman who can say “No.” without flinching, without apologizing.
Jesus didn’t say “Yes” to every request—and neither should you. Boundaries are biblical. Rest is righteous. Peace is holy.
Let’s honor the God in us by protecting our capacity. 🙏🏾
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The Blessing of Elder Women: How Their Wisdom Shaped My Life
✨ Elder women have been my Naomis—guiding, nurturing, and loving me since my mother's passing. Discover how their wisdom transformed my life. Read more at memoirsofablackgirl.com. 🌿 #FaithJourney #MemoirsOfABlackGirl @LelaJFagan
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Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something
There’s something deeply sobering about the way people react when you step into your purpose—especially when those people are the ones who know you best.
Mark 6:1-29 NLT is a chapter that doesn’t just speak—it shouts. It tells two stories that seem separate but are inextricably linked by a common theme: the cost of calling.
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability
This morning, I had to teach my son that “sorry” is just a Band-Aid. It covers a wound, but it doesn’t heal it—especially if you keep ripping it open. 🩹
Read how one before-school moment became a full-on life lesson.
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace
I trained my replacement without knowing it.
I thought the favor would keep me in position.
But the grace had lifted. The anointing was gone.
Here’s what Saul taught me about obedience, pride, and letting go.
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers
The other morning, I sat down to tackle my to-do list and quickly realized I…
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Delete… and Done!
I have a confession to make… This morning, I made the conscious decision to end…
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Learning How to Communicate Effectively as a Newlywed
July 2013 Marriage is a journey of learning, adapting, and growing—especially when it comes to…