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Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something
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Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something

Posted by Lela Fagan May 12, 2025
There’s something deeply sobering about the way people react when you step into your purpose—especially when those people are the ones who know you best. Mark 6:1-29 NLT is a chapter that doesn’t just speak—it shouts. It tells two stories that seem separate but are inextricably linked by a common theme: the cost of calling.
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability

Posted by Lela Fagan April 14, 2025
This morning, I had to teach my son that “sorry” is just a Band-Aid. It covers a wound, but it doesn’t heal it—especially if you keep ripping it open. 🩹 Read how one before-school moment became a full-on life lesson.
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace

Posted by Lela Fagan April 10, 2025
I trained my replacement without knowing it. I thought the favor would keep me in position. But the grace had lifted. The anointing was gone. Here’s what Saul taught me about obedience, pride, and letting go.
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers

Posted by Lela Fagan April 5, 2025
The other morning, I sat down to tackle my to-do list and quickly realized I…
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Delete… and Done!
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Delete… and Done!

Posted by Lela Fagan April 5, 2025
I have a confession to make… This morning, I made the conscious decision to end…
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Learning How to Communicate Effectively as a Newlywed
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Learning How to Communicate Effectively as a Newlywed

Posted by Lela Fagan January 6, 2024
July 2013 Marriage is a journey of learning, adapting, and growing—especially when it comes to…
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  • Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something
  • He Could Never Be Satisfied: What King Solomon and Hamilton Teach Us About Legacy, Ego, and Obedience
  • What a Baby Sparrow Taught Me About Faith in Action
  • Boxes, Books, and Breakthroughs: How One Apartment Shaped My Journey
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