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15th October
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Web-Locked, a New Web Series about the Ins and Outs of Marriage

Hey folks, I have a new web-series that a sister-friend of mine Christina Faison co-produced and directed called “Web-Locked”.  It’s a show about the ins and outs of marriage.  Follow a young couple as they experience the first hysterical year of being “Web-Locked”.

The series officially premieres on Sunday, November 1st, 2009.  It stars Lawrence Saint-Victor and Karla Mosley from the Guiding Light.  Lawrence is also one of my brother’s in Christ and is the writer of the series!   This is the first collaborative effort between Christina’s production company Chain Reaction Productions and Lawrence’s company Saint-Victor Productions and from the sneak peek does not look like it will be the last.

To find out more about “Web-Locked” friend the series on Facebook, subscribe to the YouTube channel or follow them on Twitter.

“Spread the news like wild-fire, and watch it be a chain reaction.  Tell everyone you know.  It’s time for positive programming to hit the airways!” – Christina Faison

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Web-Locked, a New Web Series about the Ins and Outs of Marriage
11th October
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Finding a silver lining after 3 shots

When I left the movies tonight at 42nd Street, I had two options 1) Go straight home to finish proofing my first manuscript or 2) Enjoy the cool night air and take a walk over to 34th Street so I could pick up some items from Kmart.  I decided to take up option two and ended up dodging tourists, and assisting others finding where Conway was.  When I got to W. 34th I was presented with Superman trying to sell me DVDs for $5 a single and $10 for a box set and a Malaysian woman selling a table full of adorable earrings, necklaces and bracelets that I promised I would be back to shop from.

I eventually entered Kmart and descended on the escalator leading to the house wares section behind a family of four.  The father not so gingerly let off a bomb that hit my nose so hard I had to take a step back.   Putting that out of mind I continued my shopping left Kmart and as promised did purchase two pairs of ears from the Malaysian woman.  Who complimented me on my silver bangles (go me.)

I then headed to my train station before entering, I waved goodbye to Spiderman who was on the opposite street corner to Superman.  While on my train with a throng of Rangers fans, took the time to catch up on my bible reading.  I completed the entire book of Ruth and continued onto reading Isaiah chapters 4 – 9 from the Message Bible.  I am working through complete Isaiah by the end of the year.

When I got off at my home station I began walking and singing to myself praise and worship songs.  I have been working on not being embarrassed when it comes to praising God in public.  So, for me to be singing as I am walking home is a big thing.  When I neared my block, I prepared myself by stopping and taking my keys out of my purse.  When I looked up I saw the police activity.  My block was taped off there were detectives knocking on doors and some of my neighbors were standing waiting till they were able to go enter our building again.

As I got closer to the tape, I didn’t get upset.  I just began thanking God that I had stayed in the city a bit longer.  Checked with my roommate to make sure she was ok, she was.  See if I had went straight home. I might have been caught in the middle of the gunfire, it had only occurred an hour before my arrival.   I later learned that a young boy had been shot on the corner of my building. The complete details are still pending.  However I did find the silver lining in it all.  As I stood there with my neighbors waiting I was able to give them comic relief.  Telling them stories of previous incidences I remembered from growing up “da hood.”  I told them that the inconvenience of a police presence was for our own well being and that after all this, I would have something extra special to blog about tonight.  Some of the off collar comments my neighbors made I cannot not repeat, however I can tell you this.  We were all grateful, to be able to enter my building again once we were.

Lela Jefferson – www.memoirsofablackgirl.com

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Finding a silver lining after 3 shots
11th October
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
A movie about “Good Hair”

Tonight I went on a date with myself to see the movie “Good Hair” executive produced by Chris Rock and Nelson George (VH1 Soul Cities); with interviews with such celebrities as Nia Long, Dr. Maya Angelou, Rev. Al Sharpton, Marvett Britto and Ice T.  I have to be honest I went to see the documentary with a completely opened mind.  I wasn’t sure what I was going to expect.

Folks, from start to finish I really did enjoy myself and did learn a bit.  It was scary to see what can happen to a soda can after being left in “Creamy Crack” / Relaxer in its natural chemical form for a while.  To learning where Remy Hair / Indian “Good” Hair comes from and how it is collected.  To hearing a three (3) year black girl say that everyone should get a perm.

Oddly enough, I left the movie theater thinking about getting a new hair system haha

To check out “Good Hair” for your self I recommend the site http://www.fandango.com (this is NOT an affiliate link.)

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A movie about “Good Hair”
11th October
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
The Self Correcting Spirit

So… in thinking about what was going to be my 1st blog topic today, led me to think about both my pastors (Dr. Creflo A. and Taffi L. Dollar) recent teachings on the faith of what an AUTHENTIC Christian should be and its co-relation to a tweet quote I read sent by John C. Maxwell in regards to Integrity.  ”Integrity is the glue that keeps our way of life together.  We must strive to keep our integrity intact. – Billy Graham”

From Webster:

Main Entry: in·teg·ri·ty

Pronunciation: \in-ˈte-grə-tē\

Function: noun

Etymology: Middle English integrite, from Middle French & Latin; Middle French integrité, from Latin integritat-, integritas, from integr-, integer entire

Date: 14th century

1 : firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values : incorruptibility
2 : an unimpaired condition : soundness
3 : the quality or state of being complete or undivided : completeness

synonyms see honesty

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To me what it means to be an AUTHENTIC Christian is to do what Jesus would have done.  To have compassion, have a strong sense of integrity, have temperance (and all the other fruits of the spirit) be able to correct and be corrected (teachable) with love, and a willing to lay your life down for the Abba Father.

One of my attitude adjustment plan steps is to work on correcting one challenging thing about myself one day at a time.  So that what I want to be projected about my character lines up with the WORD and is pleasing to God.  In order to do this I know that I need to know what God says about me, have a teachable spirit, be able to hear the voice of God and be willing to obey it immediately.  By doing this I am developing what I like to call the “Self Correcting Spirit”.  Knowing when something is wrong (does not line up to God’s word) and being able to correct my actions and words before they become habits.

Today I am reviewing my INTEGRITY.  What aspect of your character will you be reviewing / working on correcting today?

Lela Jeffersonwww.memoirsofablackgirl.com

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The Self Correcting Spirit
7th October
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Thirteen

Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World - Joanna WeaverI read having a Mary Heart in a Martha World – Finding Intimacy with God in the Busyness of Life by Joanna Weaver over the summer.  A book I now highly recommend for all women, young and old to read.  I have been actually sharing my findings as I journey through the accompanying Bible Study Mrs. Weaver placed at the end of the book on my blogs.  Here is the latest question I studied out and gave commentary on.

Questions for Going Deeper – Day Thirteen

7) Write Jesus a letter beginning with “Lord, I know you love me because…,” and list the ways he has shown his great love for you.

Lord, I know you love me because you gave your life as a living sacrifice for me.  You taught through your example to others that even though it is over two thousand years later I am still gleaning from your wisdom!  You left me the greatest comforter, the Holy Spirit to be my daily guide.  Even though you have been redeemed and have returned to sit at the father’s side you STILL intercede on my behalf ceaselessly.  With the simple calling of your name and my belief in your word, your only answer to me is always YES!

There is SO much that I can list about how you have shown your great love to me, but the greatest is that you called me yours before I even knew how to utter your name.  Each day I fall more and more in love with you as we grow more intimate with each other.  All I want to do is serve you and your people.  I know through my willing servitude and swift obedience to your voice, I show you my love, trust and respect in return.

To be continued… I welcome your comments!

The previous article can be found here.

Lela Jeffersonhttp://www.memoirsofablackgirl.com

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Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Thirteen
22nd September
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve

Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World - Joanna WeaverI read having a Mary Heart in a Martha World – Finding Intimacy with God in the Busyness of Life by Joanna Weaver over the summer.  A book I now highly recommend for all women, young and old to read.  I have been actually sharing my findings as I journey through the accompanying Bible Study Mrs. Weaver placed at the end of the book on my blogs.  Here is the latest question I studied out and gave commentary on.

Questions for Going Deeper – Day Twelve

6) Read Psalm 103. List at least five of the many ways God shows his love for us.  (If you are struggling to know the Father’s love, consider memorizing this chapter so you won’t forget “all his benefits.”)

The benefits that stand out for me are as follows, the complete chapter follows my highlights:

  1. God forgives us of ALL our generational sins (iniquities) and he heals us of ALL our diseases (things that don’t put us at ease.)
  2. God redeems our lives from evil and makes them beautiful, dignified with his loving-kindness for his sake with tender mercy.
  3. Through our confessions he renews our youth like that of an eagle.
  4. God does not hold grudges.
  5. He removes transgressions from our lives.

Psalm 103 (Amplified Bible)

Psalm 103

[A Psalm] of David.

1BLESS (AFFECTIONATELY, gratefully praise) the Lord, O my soul; and all that is [deepest] within me, bless His holy name!

2Bless (affectionately, gratefully praise) the Lord, O my soul, and forget not [one of] all His benefits–

3Who forgives [every one of] all your iniquities, Who heals [each one of] all your diseases,

4Who redeems your life from the pit and corruption, Who beautifies, dignifies, and crowns you with loving-kindness and tender mercy;

5Who satisfies your mouth [your necessity and desire at your personal age and situation] with good so that your youth, renewed, is like the eagle’s [strong, overcoming, soaring]!(A)

6The Lord executes righteousness and justice [not for me only, but] for all who are oppressed.

7He made known His ways [of righteousness and justice] to Moses, His acts to the children of Israel.

8The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and plenteous in mercy and loving-kindness.(B)

9He will not always chide or be contending, neither will He keep His anger forever or hold a grudge.

10He has not dealt with us after our sins nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.

11For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great are His mercy and loving-kindness toward those who reverently and worshipfully fear Him.

12As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.

13As a father loves and pities his children, so the Lord loves and pities those who fear Him [with reverence, worship, and awe].

14For He knows our frame, He [earnestly] remembers and imprints [on His heart] that we are dust.

15As for man, his days are as grass; as a flower of the field, so he flourishes.

16For the wind passes over it and it is gone, and its place shall know it no more.

17But the mercy and loving-kindness of the Lord are from everlasting to everlasting upon those who reverently and worshipfully fear Him, and His righteousness is to children’s children–(C)

18To such as keep His covenant [hearing, receiving, loving, and obeying it] and to those who [earnestly] remember His commandments to do them [imprinting them on their hearts].

19The Lord has established His throne in the heavens, and His kingdom rules over all.

20Bless (affectionately, gratefully praise) the Lord, you His angels, you mighty ones who do His commandments, hearkening to the voice of His word.

21Bless (affectionately, gratefully praise) the Lord, all you His hosts, you His ministers who do His pleasure.

22Bless the Lord, all His works in all places of His dominion; bless (affectionately, gratefully praise) the Lord, O my soul!

Cross references:

  1. Psalm 103:5 : Isa 40:31
  2. Psalm 103:8 : James 5:11
  3. Psalm 103:17 : Deut 10:12

Amplified Bible (AMP)

Copyright © 1954, 1958, 1962, 1964, 1965, 1987 by The Lockman Foundation

To be continued… I welcome your comments!

The previous article can be found here.

Lela Jeffersonhttp://www.memoirsofablackgirl.com

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Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Twelve
17th September
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eleven

Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World - Joanna WeaverI read having a Mary Heart in a Martha World – Finding Intimacy with God in the Busyness of Life by Joanna Weaver over the summer.  A book I now highly recommend for all women, young and old to read.  I have been actually sharing my findings as I journey through the accompanying Bible Study Mrs. Weaver placed at the end of the book on my blogs.  Here is the latest question I studied out and gave commentary on.

Questions for Going Deeper – Day Eleven

5) In Mark 4:34-41 the disciples echoed Martha’s question:  “Don’t you care?”  What does this portion of Scripture teach us about the difficult times in our lives? (Consider Isaiah 43:1-2.)

What these two passages of scriptures teach us is that even when it looks the most difficult; God has already said in HIS word (referencing Isaiah 43:1-2) that he would be with us.  We need to stop having stock, believing in what we see with our natural eyes and begin to have faith in what he has promised us in his word.  Jesus who was the word made flesh was in the boat with the disciples (referencing Mark 4:34-41), yet and still they had fear that they would perish.  They were still in a state of disbelief.  For even after he had calmed the waters and the winds; they could not comprehend the matter of man Jesus was.  They still did not understand the authority or blessing they had amongst them.  Praise God for our sake they eventually did!

To be continued… I welcome your comments!

The previous article can be found here.

Lela Jeffersonhttp://www.memoirsofablackgirl.com

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Chapter Two | Lord Don’t You Care? | Day Eleven
9th September
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Introducing the MommyWriter | Dominique Rambert

Folks, I have a new set of blogs for you to check out, written by the MommyWriter ;-) . A young military wife that is living GREEN; raising her first child, loving her husband and blogging about it. Check her out today!

 Dominique is a wife and mother to a very active 12 month old in NYC.  In addition to her full-time job she is also a freelance writer, blogger, and non-profit organizer.  Her writing topics run the gamut from book reviews, parenting, education, Christianity, freelancing/publishing, and a lot in between.

Dominique in her own words…

While I write mostly about parenting and education issues, I also write about Christianity, writing/freelancing, and any other topic that come my way.  As you will notice on this blog and on my webzine Balancing Act I
also write book reviews. 

I started this blog to chronicle my journey in the freelance writing industry, while hopefully offering some lessons from the trenches to other writers who are beginning their careers .

Besides my writing I am also the founder of Mommy Writers, a non-profit organization built to offer a community to writing mothers.

TheMommyWriter

MommyWriter

http://www.blogher.com/blog/mommywriter

FreelanceWriterForHire

Searching for Freelance Success

http://freelancerforhire.wordpress.com/about

“A blog beginning writers can really sink their teeth into.  Practical advice alongside the encouraging, sometimes funny, but always relatable experiences of a beginning writer.  Read along as I search for freelance success." – Dominique Rambert

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9th September
2009
written by Lela Jefferson
Reading for Enjoyment a Passion Inherited

One of my passions in life is reading; it has been for as long as I can remember. As a little girl my parents fostered it in me with weekly trips to the library and introducing animated storytelling into our nightly bedtime routine.

Though my parents separated when I was young; their joint nurturing of my love of reading did not cease. No matter where my father lived after their separation and even still in my mother’s home, he had milk crates and shelves spilling over with books. He was an avid reader and collector.

Come to think about it…I don’t think I can ever recall my dad telling me, he was reading just one book! We would have weekly discussions catching each other up on what new book we had discovered…that the other just had to read.

books

Like him, I generally have 3-5 books on my coffee table that I am working on completing and have a growing library.

Recently, as I am learning how to slow down and enjoy the lulls of life. I have begun again to read for enjoyment. Of course this means since I LOVE sharing what good finds I discovered, I want to share them with you my readers a listing of the books that I am either reading or plan to read.

From the realms of history, poetry, spirituality, how-to/self improvement, fantasy, and even romance… I bring to you titles straight from my own collections.

See through the windows of my soul; the current year reading schedule of author/poet and performance artist, Lela Jefferson.

http://www.memoirsofablackgirl.com/soul/

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