This afternoon, I received a call from Tyson’s school.
It wasn’t terrible, but it wasn’t great either. Just one of those check-in moments that make a mama pause, breathe deep, and brace herself to pour into her child with both truth and love.
When Tyson got home, I pulled him aside. He’s only eight, but I believe our babies are never too young to understand the power they carry in their spirit and in their name.
I said, “Son, you didn’t just go to school today as Tyson. You walked in with three names—three identities.”
He tilted his head, curious but listening.
“First, you are a child of God. That means no matter what happens, no matter who says what, your identity starts in heaven. You are loved. You are covered. You are called.”
“Second, you are Tyson—an original. You get to decide what people associate with your name. Kindness, creativity, focus? That’s on you.”
“Third, your middle name is Oji, just like your daddy. That name stands for strength, leadership, and honor. And your last name is Fagan—that carries the weight of our family, our legacy, our laughter, and our lessons.”
I told him that every day he walks out that door, he represents all of that—and I want him to remember that when he’s out in the world, even when we’re not right there beside him.
And you know what he did?
He echoed me, word for word.
“I want to leave a good impression tomorrow.”
Yes, baby. That’s the goal. The last day of school isn’t just about summer excitement. It’s about finishing well. It’s about understanding that grace doesn’t mean we lower our standards—it means we grow from our stumbles and keep rising.
Scripture Reflection
“A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”
— Proverbs 22:1 (NLT)
Reflection Question
What names or identities do you carry with you each day? How do your actions reflect the legacy you’re a part of?
Call-to-Action
Take a moment this week to affirm a child or young person in your life. Speak life over their identity. Remind them they are more than the moment—they are legacy in motion.
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