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From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen
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From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen

Posted by Lela Fagan June 29, 2025
We danced in a Fulani village. Rode dune buggies to the Atlantic. Prayed at the ocean’s edge. I missed my mama. We got soaked in rain, witnessed beauty, and learned painful truths. And then we crossed into Ghana…
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From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen
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From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen

Posted by Lela Fagan June 29, 2025
In the summer of 1994, I boarded a plane for the very first time—with a passport, a notebook, and a dream. At sixteen, I left Brooklyn and journeyed with my dad, aunt, and cousin to Senegal and Ghana for what became a soul-shifting trip to the Motherland.
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 My Funko Pop Rotation: How a Black Girl’s Office Shelf Tells a Story
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 My Funko Pop Rotation: How a Black Girl’s Office Shelf Tells a Story

Posted by Lela Fagan June 28, 2025
Discover how I rotate my Funko Pop collection—from Wakanda to classic TV—and why it’s more than a shelf; it’s a story of joy, culture, and legacy.
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Practical Holiness: Living From the Inside Out
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Practical Holiness: Living From the Inside Out

Posted by Lela Fagan June 28, 2025
While flipping through one of my old Bible study notebooks from over thirteen years ago,…
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When Fear Knocks, Let Faith Answer
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When Fear Knocks, Let Faith Answer

Posted by Lela Fagan June 28, 2025
🕊️ When fear comes knocking, don’t leave it on read—let faith answer the door with the Word as backup. This summer, I’m decluttering more than closets. I’m clearing out the lies fear told me and making room for bold, faith-filled action.
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You

Posted by Lela Fagan June 21, 2025
Being the “cool Auntie” means knowing when to listen and when to drop a gem. I wrote this a decade ago—before motherhood—and now it hits even deeper.
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Dear Hearts: A Healing Letter to All My Nieces and Nephews
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Dear Hearts: A Healing Letter to All My Nieces and Nephews

Posted by Lela Fagan June 17, 2025
Grief doesn’t knock before it shows up. But neither does healing. Read this open letter from Auntie Lela to all her nieces and nephews about life, loss, and choosing to live again.
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A Renaissance Man in Reeboks: Remembering My Father’s Quiet Genius
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A Renaissance Man in Reeboks: Remembering My Father’s Quiet Genius

Posted by Lela Fagan June 15, 2025
Some men leave behind estates.Others leave behind empires.My father? He left behind legacy. He was…
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Happy Father’s Day to Our Forever Head Coach — Oji Fagan
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Happy Father’s Day to Our Forever Head Coach — Oji Fagan

Posted by Lela Fagan June 15, 2025
From the sidelines of the field to the heart of our home, you lead with…
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story

Posted by Lela Fagan June 4, 2025
Parenting neurodivergent children requires deep listening, daily grace, and limitless love. In my latest blog post, I reflect on raising my three beautifully unique kids—and how God meets me in the moments in between.
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