Skip to content
Memoirs of a Black Girl

The Writing, Faith & Family Life of Author Lela J. Fagan.

  • Home
  • Lela Unscripted
  • Stories & Musings
  • Book Collection
  • Contact
  • Home
  • Stories & Musings
  • Gen X nostalgia
Neurodivergence and the X-Factor
Posted inFamily Latest News Motherhood

Neurodivergence and the X-Factor

Posted by Lela Fagan August 9, 2025
I’ve realized something: raising neurodivergent children is like raising the X-Men. Their strengths are powerful, their challenges are real, and the world often misunderstands them. But fear isn’t the answer—understanding is. 🦸🏾‍♀️ #Parenting #Neurodiversity
Read More
Ashanti Crowns and Soulful Goodbyes: The End of My African Homecoming
Posted inFamily Fathers and Daughters Latest News

Ashanti Crowns and Soulful Goodbyes: The End of My African Homecoming

Posted by Lela Fagan July 3, 2025
From mosquito-bitten nights in a $2.50 hotel to dancing for the last time on African soil, my final days in Ghana were unforgettable. I became Adawa, saw the Ashanti King, and nearly caused a market riot over a lost camera. Oh—and I watched my dad get chased for wearing a sombrero and biker shorts in Senegal.
Read More
From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen
Posted inFathers and Daughters Latest News

From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen

Posted by Lela Fagan June 29, 2025
We danced in a Fulani village. Rode dune buggies to the Atlantic. Prayed at the ocean’s edge. I missed my mama. We got soaked in rain, witnessed beauty, and learned painful truths. And then we crossed into Ghana…
Read More
From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen
Posted inFamily Fathers and Daughters Latest News

From Brooklyn to the Motherland: My First Trip to Africa at Sixteen

Posted by Lela Fagan June 29, 2025
In the summer of 1994, I boarded a plane for the very first time—with a passport, a notebook, and a dream. At sixteen, I left Brooklyn and journeyed with my dad, aunt, and cousin to Senegal and Ghana for what became a soul-shifting trip to the Motherland.
Read More
 My Funko Pop Rotation: How a Black Girl’s Office Shelf Tells a Story
Posted inLatest News Testimonies

 My Funko Pop Rotation: How a Black Girl’s Office Shelf Tells a Story

Posted by Lela Fagan June 28, 2025
Discover how I rotate my Funko Pop collection—from Wakanda to classic TV—and why it’s more than a shelf; it’s a story of joy, culture, and legacy.
Read More

Recent Posts

  • Becoming the Elder: A Reflection on Legacy, Loss, and Self-Care
  • Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family
  • Neurodivergence and the X-Factor
  • Living in the Overflow: Walking in God’s Abundance, Grace, and Glory
  • Don’t Compromise the Standard: Why You Need Standards in Life and Leadership

Archives

  • September 2025
  • August 2025
  • July 2025
  • June 2025
  • May 2025
  • April 2025
  • March 2025
  • January 2024
  • December 2023

Categories

  • Bible Study
  • Family
  • Fathers and Daughters
  • Latest News
  • Life Lessons
  • Marriage
  • Motherhood
  • Parenting
  • Poetry and Prose
  • Prayers
  • Relationships
  • Testimonies
Copyright 2000 - 2025 — Memoirs of a Black Girl. All rights reserved. Bloghash WordPress Theme
Scroll to Top