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He Could Never Be Satisfied: What King Solomon and Hamilton Teach Us About Legacy, Ego, and Obedience
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He Could Never Be Satisfied: What King Solomon and Hamilton Teach Us About Legacy, Ego, and Obedience

Posted by Lela Fagan April 30, 2025
“Legacy isn’t built on brilliance alone—it’s shaped by obedience.” What does the wisest king in the Bible have in common with Broadway’s most lyrical legend? A cautionary tale of ambition, approval, and the downfall of men who flew too close to the sun.
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What a Baby Sparrow Taught Me About Faith in Action
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What a Baby Sparrow Taught Me About Faith in Action

Posted by Lela Fagan April 27, 2025
Originally penned 11 years ago, this reflection remains close to my heart. Sometimes the smallest moments—like a fallen sparrow—carry the biggest lessons. I’ve revisited and refreshed this piece for Memoirs of a Black Girl, but its core message of faith in action stands timeless.
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Boxes, Books, and Breakthroughs: How One Apartment Shaped My Journey
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Boxes, Books, and Breakthroughs: How One Apartment Shaped My Journey

Posted by Lela Fagan April 26, 2025
Editor’s Note: Originally written over a decade ago, this reflection captures a pivotal moment in my journey—closing one chapter and stepping boldly into the next. As you read, I invite you to walk with me through the halls of memory, faith, and healing. — Lela J. Fagan
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I Must Respectfully Disagree: A Testimony of Faith, Family, and Growth
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I Must Respectfully Disagree: A Testimony of Faith, Family, and Growth

Posted by Lela Fagan April 25, 2025
10 years ago, I survived a crash that should’ve taken me. But God. 🙌🏾 This Flashback Friday, I’m sharing my testimony and why I had to “respectfully disagree” with family on the road to healing. 👉🏾
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Lessons from the Hubby Coach: Faith, Fear, and Country Roads
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Lessons from the Hubby Coach: Faith, Fear, and Country Roads

Posted by Lela Fagan April 21, 2025
Some lessons don’t come in sermons or self-help books. Sometimes, they show up on backroads at dusk, with your husband coaching from the passenger seat and your heart racing with more than just traffic fear.
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability

Posted by Lela Fagan April 14, 2025
This morning, I had to teach my son that “sorry” is just a Band-Aid. It covers a wound, but it doesn’t heal it—especially if you keep ripping it open. 🩹 Read how one before-school moment became a full-on life lesson.
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama

Posted by Lela Fagan April 11, 2025
I wish you had known her... Twelve years ago, I wrote a letter to my nieces introducing them to their grandmother — my Mama. Today, I share it again, because her legacy still lives through us.
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace

Posted by Lela Fagan April 10, 2025
I trained my replacement without knowing it. I thought the favor would keep me in position. But the grace had lifted. The anointing was gone. Here’s what Saul taught me about obedience, pride, and letting go.
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby

Posted by Lela Fagan April 8, 2025
7 years ago, we said yes to a different kind of parenting path. We leaned on God, leaned into each other, and trusted that the story would be beautiful—and it is.
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You Asked God to Use You… So Why Are You Running?
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You Asked God to Use You… So Why Are You Running?

Posted by Lela Fagan April 7, 2025
You asked God to use you… so why are you running when He does? Sometimes the call won’t come where you’re comfortable—but it’ll always come where you’re called. Read how I had to surrender my will all over again in a brand new season.
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Brooklyn Girlhood, Bold Moves, and a Bus Ride That Changed Everything
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Brooklyn Girlhood, Bold Moves, and a Bus Ride That Changed Everything

Posted by Lela Fagan April 6, 2025
Before Google Maps, before cell phones—just a girl with a big heart, a MetroCard, and fearless determination. This story takes me back to the roots of my courage.
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Don’t Discount Your Past
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Don’t Discount Your Past

Posted by Lela Fagan April 6, 2025
When I look back over my life—what I’ve been through, where I’ve been, and the…
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers

Posted by Lela Fagan April 5, 2025
The other morning, I sat down to tackle my to-do list and quickly realized I…
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Delete… and Done!
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Delete… and Done!

Posted by Lela Fagan April 5, 2025
I have a confession to make… This morning, I made the conscious decision to end…
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Godfather and Godchild at playground
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One of the Three Men I Was Honored to Call My Godfather

Posted by Lela Fagan April 2, 2025
Not every child is blessed with godparents—people chosen to guide their spiritual journey and, if…
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