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Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family
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Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family

Posted by Lela Fagan September 4, 2025
Eight years ago, my vision boards were full of prayers for family + faith. This month, we celebrate the anniversary of meeting the boys — and watch Ella Grace sing whole songs in the background. God’s timing? Right. On. Time.
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Neurodivergence and the X-Factor
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Neurodivergence and the X-Factor

Posted by Lela Fagan August 9, 2025
I’ve realized something: raising neurodivergent children is like raising the X-Men. Their strengths are powerful, their challenges are real, and the world often misunderstands them. But fear isn’t the answer—understanding is. 🦸🏾‍♀️ #Parenting #Neurodiversity
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Inclusion in Action: An Autism Mama’s Unexpected Blessing
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Inclusion in Action: An Autism Mama’s Unexpected Blessing

Posted by Lela Fagan July 31, 2025
A Grace-Filled First How one summer camp field trip reminded me that with the right…
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story
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The Daily Grace of Parenting Neurodivergent Children: A Mama’s Story

Posted by Lela Fagan June 4, 2025
Parenting neurodivergent children requires deep listening, daily grace, and limitless love. In my latest blog post, I reflect on raising my three beautifully unique kids—and how God meets me in the moments in between.
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The Weight of a Name: A Lesson for My Son
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The Weight of a Name: A Lesson for My Son

Posted by Lela Fagan May 28, 2025
🧠💛 Today, I reminded my son Tyson that he carries three names—child of God, his own, and his family’s. When our babies understand who they are, they grow into who they’re meant to be.
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Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something
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Walking in Your Calling: Why Faith Will Always Cost You Something

Posted by Lela Fagan May 12, 2025
There’s something deeply sobering about the way people react when you step into your purpose—especially when those people are the ones who know you best. Mark 6:1-29 NLT is a chapter that doesn’t just speak—it shouts. It tells two stories that seem separate but are inextricably linked by a common theme: the cost of calling.
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability

Posted by Lela Fagan April 14, 2025
This morning, I had to teach my son that “sorry” is just a Band-Aid. It covers a wound, but it doesn’t heal it—especially if you keep ripping it open. 🩹 Read how one before-school moment became a full-on life lesson.
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama

Posted by Lela Fagan April 11, 2025
I wish you had known her... Twelve years ago, I wrote a letter to my nieces introducing them to their grandmother — my Mama. Today, I share it again, because her legacy still lives through us.
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby

Posted by Lela Fagan April 8, 2025
7 years ago, we said yes to a different kind of parenting path. We leaned on God, leaned into each other, and trusted that the story would be beautiful—and it is.
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The Day I Became Hannah: Choosing Family After Fibroids
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The Day I Became Hannah: Choosing Family After Fibroids

Posted by Lela Fagan December 23, 2023
“They said I might be barren. I said I’d be a mother. God never told me how—just that I would be.” 💜 #FaithOverFear #HealingJourney #MyomectomyRecovery #InfertilityAwareness #FaithStory #MemoirsOfABlackGirl
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Still Hannah: My Fight for Hope After Uterine Surgery
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Still Hannah: My Fight for Hope After Uterine Surgery

Posted by Lela Fagan December 23, 2023
June 2015 Still Hannah: My Fight for Hope After Uterine Surgery Part Two of “The…
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The Day I Became Hannah: Navigating Uterine Fibroids and Faith-Based Healing
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The Day I Became Hannah: Navigating Uterine Fibroids and Faith-Based Healing

Posted by Lela Fagan December 22, 2023
What happens when the fight for motherhood meets faith? “She asked who I was. I said, ‘My name is Hannah.’” I’m sharing Part One of my myomectomy memoir—a story of healing, hope, and identity.
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Taking Time Out To Count My Blessings

Posted by Lela Fagan December 22, 2023
As a mom of special needs kids, my journey of finding balance in life has…
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The Grace Message Found in the Parable of Jonah

Posted by Lela Fagan December 3, 2023
I feel blessed and humbled today as I had the opportunity to step into the…
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Recent Posts

  • Becoming the Elder: A Reflection on Legacy, Loss, and Self-Care
  • Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family
  • Neurodivergence and the X-Factor
  • Living in the Overflow: Walking in God’s Abundance, Grace, and Glory
  • Don’t Compromise the Standard: Why You Need Standards in Life and Leadership

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