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Faith, Funnels, and First Drafts: When Obedience Meets Strategy
Lela shares why she’s been quiet on Memoirs of a Black Girl and how faith, AI study, and strategy are shaping her next season.
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How I Taught Myself to Cook: A Collard Greens Kitchen Memoir
“Sometimes you don’t inherit tradition — you create it.”
And baby…
these greens?
They taste like a woman who taught herself how to thrive. 💚
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When “No” Becomes Necessary: Embracing Change, Growth, and New Seasons as a Family
Change doesn’t ask permission—it arrives, demanding clarity and courage. As a mother, wife, and senior administrative support staff member, I’m navigating a season where growth requires honest reflection, intentional action, and the willingness to let some chapters end so new ones can begin.
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When I Stopped Trying to Fix My Daughter, She Found Her Voice
There’s a little secret I want to share about how my daughter, Ella Grace, began…
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The Holy Work of Listening: Faith, Neurodivergence, and Learning Not to Judge
Life hasn’t been perfect—whose is? But one thing I’ve learned in my 47 years of…
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Checking In Before Checking Out: A December Health Reset
At the beginning of December, I chose to check in with my body before the year checked out on me. With wellness appointments, small adjustments, unexpected weight loss, and a brand-new hydration journey, I’m preparing for 2026 with intention—not resolutions, but foundations.
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When Confidence Finds Its Voice: How God Met Me at Praise Team Rehearsal
A small moment in Praise Team rehearsal turned into a powerful reminder from the Holy Spirit about confidence, calling, and walking boldly in who God says I am.
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Becoming the Elder: A Reflection on Legacy, Loss, and Self-Care
This past week, I was reminded in a painful yet profound way: I am an elder now.
I’ve carried this mantle since birth, but it feels different when loss reminds you of how precious and short time can be. My great-grand niece’s passing brought back memories of the elders I lost too soon, and it stirred in me a commitment to care for myself so I can be present for my children and their children.
Legacy isn’t only about memory. It’s about presence.
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Living in the Overflow: Walking in God’s Abundance, Grace, and Glory
Feb 2014. World Changers Houston. Guest minister Matthew Ashimolowo shared a word I still carry: Live in the overflow. 🌊✨ Not barely enough. Not “just making it.” But so full of God’s goodness, grace & glory that it spills into every area—and onto others. 💜
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Don’t Compromise the Standard: Why You Need Standards in Life and Leadership
Originally inspired by leadership meeting notes, 2014 | Revised for today Whether in business, ministry,…
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Decoding a Former Workaholic: Then and Now
I used to wear busy like a badge of honor. But what I’ve learned? God never asked me to hustle for His favor. He just asked for my attention.
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Eyes on the Storm: What the Eagle Knows About Leading Well
The eagle doesn’t run from storms—it rises through them. 🦅
In leadership, storms aren’t setbacks—they’re setups. Discover 4 powerful lessons from the eagle to lead with courage, vision, and heart.
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How Not to Burn Out While Serving: A Prayer for Balance, Compassion, and Overflow
Sometimes serving others leaves us feeling burnt out and bitter instead of joyful and fulfilled. It doesn’t have to be that way. 💛
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Practical Holiness: Living From the Inside Out
While flipping through one of my old Bible study notebooks from over thirteen years ago,…
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When Fear Knocks, Let Faith Answer
🕊️ When fear comes knocking, don’t leave it on read—let faith answer the door with the Word as backup.
This summer, I’m decluttering more than closets. I’m clearing out the lies fear told me and making room for bold, faith-filled action.
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You
Being the “cool Auntie” means knowing when to listen and when to drop a gem. I wrote this a decade ago—before motherhood—and now it hits even deeper.
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Dear Hearts: A Healing Letter to All My Nieces and Nephews
Grief doesn’t knock before it shows up. But neither does healing. Read this open letter from Auntie Lela to all her nieces and nephews about life, loss, and choosing to live again.
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From Throwback Thursday to Flashback Friday to Saturday and Beyond: Let the Purging Begin!
Every summer, my spirit starts whispering “declutter, sis.” And this year? I’m listening. I’m deep diving into papers, closets, garages, and forgotten storage units—not just to clean, but to make room for what’s next.
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The Weight of a Name: A Lesson for My Son
🧠💛 Today, I reminded my son Tyson that he carries three names—child of God, his own, and his family’s. When our babies understand who they are, they grow into who they’re meant to be.
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“No” Is a Complete Sentence: Faith, Boundaries & Freedom
There’s something sacred about a woman who can say “No.” without flinching, without apologizing.
Jesus didn’t say “Yes” to every request—and neither should you. Boundaries are biblical. Rest is righteous. Peace is holy.
Let’s honor the God in us by protecting our capacity. 🙏🏾