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The Holy Work of Listening: Faith, Neurodivergence, and Learning Not to Judge
Life hasn’t been perfect—whose is? But one thing I’ve learned in my 47 years of…
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Standing in the Gap: When the Holy Spirit Whispers Loud
A heartfelt reflection on standing in the gap for family, listening to the Holy Spirit, and witnessing God confirm His word through unexpected moments of loss and love. A testimony of prayer, alignment, and spiritual sensitivity.
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Becoming the Elder: A Reflection on Legacy, Loss, and Self-Care
This past week, I was reminded in a painful yet profound way: I am an elder now.
I’ve carried this mantle since birth, but it feels different when loss reminds you of how precious and short time can be. My great-grand niece’s passing brought back memories of the elders I lost too soon, and it stirred in me a commitment to care for myself so I can be present for my children and their children.
Legacy isn’t only about memory. It’s about presence.
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Groceries, Grace, and God’s Timing: Eight Years of Becoming a Family
Eight years ago, my vision boards were full of prayers for family + faith.
This month, we celebrate the anniversary of meeting the boys — and watch Ella Grace sing whole songs in the background.
God’s timing? Right. On. Time.
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Decoding a Former Workaholic: Then and Now
I used to wear busy like a badge of honor. But what I’ve learned? God never asked me to hustle for His favor. He just asked for my attention.
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Auntie Wisdom: Why Your Parents Really Do Understand You
Being the “cool Auntie” means knowing when to listen and when to drop a gem. I wrote this a decade ago—before motherhood—and now it hits even deeper.
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Dear Hearts: A Healing Letter to All My Nieces and Nephews
Grief doesn’t knock before it shows up. But neither does healing. Read this open letter from Auntie Lela to all her nieces and nephews about life, loss, and choosing to live again.
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A Renaissance Man in Reeboks: Remembering My Father’s Quiet Genius
Some men leave behind estates.Others leave behind empires.My father? He left behind legacy. He was…
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Happy Father’s Day to Our Forever Head Coach — Oji Fagan
From the sidelines of the field to the heart of our home, you lead with…
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The Weight of a Name: A Lesson for My Son
🧠💛 Today, I reminded my son Tyson that he carries three names—child of God, his own, and his family’s. When our babies understand who they are, they grow into who they’re meant to be.
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The Blessing of Elder Women: How Their Wisdom Shaped My Life
✨ Elder women have been my Naomis—guiding, nurturing, and loving me since my mother's passing. Discover how their wisdom transformed my life. Read more at memoirsofablackgirl.com. 🌿 #FaithJourney #MemoirsOfABlackGirl @LelaJFagan
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He Could Never Be Satisfied: What King Solomon and Hamilton Teach Us About Legacy, Ego, and Obedience
“Legacy isn’t built on brilliance alone—it’s shaped by obedience.”
What does the wisest king in the Bible have in common with Broadway’s most lyrical legend?
A cautionary tale of ambition, approval, and the downfall of men who flew too close to the sun.
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I Must Respectfully Disagree: A Testimony of Faith, Family, and Growth
10 years ago, I survived a crash that should’ve taken me. But God. 🙌🏾 This Flashback Friday, I’m sharing my testimony and why I had to “respectfully disagree” with family on the road to healing. 👉🏾
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Lessons from the Hubby Coach: Faith, Fear, and Country Roads
Some lessons don’t come in sermons or self-help books.
Sometimes, they show up on backroads at dusk, with your husband coaching from the passenger seat and your heart racing with more than just traffic fear.
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability
This morning, I had to teach my son that “sorry” is just a Band-Aid. It covers a wound, but it doesn’t heal it—especially if you keep ripping it open. 🩹
Read how one before-school moment became a full-on life lesson.
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama
I wish you had known her...
Twelve years ago, I wrote a letter to my nieces introducing them to their grandmother — my Mama. Today, I share it again, because her legacy still lives through us.
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace
I trained my replacement without knowing it.
I thought the favor would keep me in position.
But the grace had lifted. The anointing was gone.
Here’s what Saul taught me about obedience, pride, and letting go.
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby
7 years ago, we said yes to a different kind of parenting path. We leaned on God, leaned into each other, and trusted that the story would be beautiful—and it is.
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You Asked God to Use You… So Why Are You Running?
You asked God to use you… so why are you running when He does?
Sometimes the call won’t come where you’re comfortable—but it’ll always come where you’re called.
Read how I had to surrender my will all over again in a brand new season.
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Brooklyn Girlhood, Bold Moves, and a Bus Ride That Changed Everything
Before Google Maps, before cell phones—just a girl with a big heart, a MetroCard, and fearless determination.
This story takes me back to the roots of my courage.