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Boxes, Books, and Breakthroughs: How One Apartment Shaped My Journey
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Boxes, Books, and Breakthroughs: How One Apartment Shaped My Journey

Posted by Lela Fagan April 26, 2025
Editor’s Note: Originally written over a decade ago, this reflection captures a pivotal moment in my journey—closing one chapter and stepping boldly into the next. As you read, I invite you to walk with me through the halls of memory, faith, and healing. — Lela J. Fagan
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I Must Respectfully Disagree: A Testimony of Faith, Family, and Growth
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I Must Respectfully Disagree: A Testimony of Faith, Family, and Growth

Posted by Lela Fagan April 25, 2025
10 years ago, I survived a crash that should’ve taken me. But God. 🙌🏾 This Flashback Friday, I’m sharing my testimony and why I had to “respectfully disagree” with family on the road to healing. 👉🏾
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Lessons from the Hubby Coach: Faith, Fear, and Country Roads
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Lessons from the Hubby Coach: Faith, Fear, and Country Roads

Posted by Lela Fagan April 21, 2025
Some lessons don’t come in sermons or self-help books. Sometimes, they show up on backroads at dusk, with your husband coaching from the passenger seat and your heart racing with more than just traffic fear.
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability
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A Band-Aid is Not a Cure: Teaching Kids Real Accountability

Posted by Lela Fagan April 14, 2025
This morning, I had to teach my son that “sorry” is just a Band-Aid. It covers a wound, but it doesn’t heal it—especially if you keep ripping it open. 🩹 Read how one before-school moment became a full-on life lesson.
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama
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An Open Letter to My Nieces: I Wish You Had Known Her, My Mama

Posted by Lela Fagan April 11, 2025
I wish you had known her... Twelve years ago, I wrote a letter to my nieces introducing them to their grandmother — my Mama. Today, I share it again, because her legacy still lives through us.
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace
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You Can Be Replaced: A Story of Bitterness, Burnout, and God’s Grace

Posted by Lela Fagan April 10, 2025
I trained my replacement without knowing it. I thought the favor would keep me in position. But the grace had lifted. The anointing was gone. Here’s what Saul taught me about obedience, pride, and letting go.
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby
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I Am the Mama: When God Births a Calling, Not Just a Baby

Posted by Lela Fagan April 8, 2025
7 years ago, we said yes to a different kind of parenting path. We leaned on God, leaned into each other, and trusted that the story would be beautiful—and it is.
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You Asked God to Use You… So Why Are You Running?
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You Asked God to Use You… So Why Are You Running?

Posted by Lela Fagan April 7, 2025
You asked God to use you… so why are you running when He does? Sometimes the call won’t come where you’re comfortable—but it’ll always come where you’re called. Read how I had to surrender my will all over again in a brand new season.
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Brooklyn Girlhood, Bold Moves, and a Bus Ride That Changed Everything
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Brooklyn Girlhood, Bold Moves, and a Bus Ride That Changed Everything

Posted by Lela Fagan April 6, 2025
Before Google Maps, before cell phones—just a girl with a big heart, a MetroCard, and fearless determination. This story takes me back to the roots of my courage.
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers
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Distractions Are Destiny Robbers

Posted by Lela Fagan April 5, 2025
The other morning, I sat down to tackle my to-do list and quickly realized I…
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A Sunday Morning Drive: Small Moments, Big Blessings
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A Sunday Morning Drive: Small Moments, Big Blessings

Posted by Lela Fagan March 25, 2025
Sunday, September 8, 2013 This morning, my husband and I got up early and decided…
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Finding Independence Behind the Wheel
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Finding Independence Behind the Wheel

Posted by Lela Fagan March 25, 2025
Saturday, August 31, 2013 The high of passing my road test still lingers, but this…
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 Connecting the Dots… I Already Know You Know How to Drive.
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 Connecting the Dots… I Already Know You Know How to Drive.

Posted by Lela Fagan March 24, 2025
Friday, August 30, 2013Today, I’m going for my second attempt at passing the Texas road…
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Stepping Out in Faith: The Journey to My Road Test Victory
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Stepping Out in Faith: The Journey to My Road Test Victory

Posted by Lela Fagan March 23, 2025
Sunday, August 25, 2013 Today, my husband had me driving everywhere in my new car,…
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The Journey to “Favor”: Trusting God in the Process
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The Journey to “Favor”: Trusting God in the Process

Posted by Lela Fagan March 23, 2025
Thursday, August 22, 2013 I woke up with a sense of purpose today. Feeling led…
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By Myself… I Could Not Even Get Outside Of The Parking Lot!
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By Myself… I Could Not Even Get Outside Of The Parking Lot!

Posted by Lela Fagan March 23, 2025
Introduction: Life has a way of throwing unexpected moments at us, and sometimes, those moments…
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Black woman worshipping
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Living Through Service, Finding Life in Worship

Posted by Lela Fagan March 17, 2025
Music has a unique ability to rise above the confines of language, allowing us to…
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A Premonition of A Betrayal
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A Premonition of A Betrayal

Posted by Lela Fagan January 16, 2024
Children and animals are excellent indicators of character. The first time I had a premonition…
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Learning How to Communicate Effectively as a Newlywed
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Learning How to Communicate Effectively as a Newlywed

Posted by Lela Fagan January 6, 2024
July 2013 Marriage is a journey of learning, adapting, and growing—especially when it comes to…
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Living room with earth tones and African art.
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Set The Thermostat At Home To Sanctuary

Posted by Lela Fagan December 24, 2023
I recently had a heartfelt conversation with my dear friend, Nicole, who is my sister…
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